Friday 9 November 2012

Getting On And Falling Out...

Today at Greenfields it is Darwin day. And in Maple class we learned about 'Getting on and Falling out'.

First we talked about the qualities of a good friend, these are a few of our ideas:

Funny, adventurous, hard to fall out with, understanding, etc..etc..

Secondly we made our own friendship coins. We decorated them and wrote some of the qualities of a good friend on them and if we wanted made our own motto for the coin. Once they are all finished we are going to put them on our school Christmas tree.

Thirdly, we learned how to resolve conflict, we also found out about a thing called 'I-messages'. It's used  instead of arguing and shouting at each other, it's an easier way to say how you feel about something.

'I messaging' layout:

I feel... (the feeling you get)
When you... (the action the other person is doing that is causing the feeling)
Because... (the effect on you, or on the other people/person)

Thank-you for reading... Maybe next time your upset/angry you could use 'I message'! :-)

By Molly and Poppy x
Some of our Friendship coins!

8 comments:

  1. Wow Dawin day was an amazing day im so happy i learnt more about it i dident know much and i really wanted to learn more and i have so thanx to Mrs Prior for teaching us more about that



    From Elise In Maple Class

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  2. What a fantastic morning we had. It really made us re-evaluate the things we say to each other and the way we say them. Using Imessages felt a little odd at first but we realised that it certainly helped to avoid conflict. Fortunately we do get on really well in Maple Class but we have learned some good techniques for the future.
    Mrs Prior

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    1. Well Mrs Prior I thought that too but then when I got used to using imessages I was using them at home to make things better with my next door neiber the one I told you about and actully it worked

      from Elise in maple

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  3. They look like good friendship tokens.

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  4. WOW those are some spectacular friendship tokens!

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  5. These are lovely freindship coins.

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  6. What great messages they are. We all need friends and to feel cared for, respected and appreciated. We learn Positive Education which helps us to unlock the keys to being a successful friend. The keys we focus on are: Organisation, Persistence, Confidence, Resilience and Getting along.
    Thanks for sharing your lovely messages with us.
    SeniorG
    Melbourne, Australia

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  7. cool friendship tokens, they are very colorful!!!

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